Years ago a driver who rear-ended my stopped car, propelling it into the car ahead of mine, asked me, “Wasn’t the light green?” Needless to say, the driver’s inattention, not the green light, caused my whiplash.
Appropriate responsibility allows you to discern what you “own” and what to do about it. If you tend toward over-responsibility, like I do, you may take on more than your share hoping to avoid blame. After all, what more could you have done? Avoiding blame often underpins under-responsibility as well, giving a free “I didn’t do it” pass.
Dictionary.com defines blame as “to hold responsible.” Blame and criticism, either from others or ourselves, never feel good. Yet the other side of blame, getting credit, never lasts like the internal satisfaction of doing the right thing. Fortunately credit and blame both dissolve when you focus on what serves everyone’s highest good. I remind myself of this as we enter the seventh week of my mother’s extended stay with us.
“Responsibility – The ability to respond to life as a series of personal decisions.” You tailor every decision through the filter of your soul work, the influence of your traveling companions in this lifetime, and all the other factors determining your character. Life brings you what you need as a soul and you respond accordingly.
“Staying accountable for your actions strengthens your freedom to choose and builds self-respect.” Internal accountability allows you to honor your commitments both at the soul and human level. Fulfilling your responsibilities strengthens your internal scaffolding.
In Jin Shin Jyutsu® (JSJ) Japanese acupressure, Safety Energy Lock (SEL) 7 supports both responsible and awakened, a perfect duo for appropriate responsibility. SEL 7 also connects you to heaven and earth, great support when your responsibilities feel overwhelming.
Which feels more empowering, to accept appropriate responsibilities or decline inappropriate ones?
*The responsibility quotes come from The Original Angel Card Book – Inspirational Messages and Meditations by Kathy Tyler and Joy Drake.
About three weeks ago, my 56-year-old physically fit husband experienced paralysis of his right side following a stroke. Today it's like his stroke never happened.
Some Jin Shin Jyutsu self-helps for managing emotions, enhancing immunity, and supporting our lungs. Also, I'm hosting free Immunity in Community gatherings.
Harmony begins with an open heart. How can you invite more open-heartedness and thus deeper connections?
We open with a 45 minute or so Akashic Records consultation. The revealed themes, patterns, and disharmonies drive the table work in conjunction with your "pulses," body reading, and my intuitive insights. A follow-up e-mail documents what occurs during the energy work and includes customized self-helps.
In this work, you remain fully clothed. Just wear whatever will feel comfortable while lying on my massage table. If it's a remote session, I'll ask you to rest while I send energy.
Please consider the personal or interpersonal disharmony that led you to me and how you would like it to shift. During the session, we'll explore and address the origins and drivers of each "project."
No, the records aren’t a good resource for predictions. If there’s something you hope will happen, the records might reveal a series of necessary steps to reach your desired outcome but not the timing. For predictions, please consult a good psychic or astrologer!
Minors are under their parents' legal and energetic jurisdiction until they are 18, regardless of their maturity level.
The greatest benefit occurs when I incorporate all four modalities I practice. The option without the Akashic Records is appropriate for children under 18 who cannot receive readings. A stand-alone reading can bring insight and healing but does not involve my direct interaction with your energetic and physical bodies like my other practices.
No, but you are welcome to record sessions yourself.
Self-helps, both from Jin Shin Jyutsu and the Embodied Energy System, support your continued harmony, accelerate your evolution, and empower you. Plus they make you sparkly!